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    The journey to success is not always smooth and easy, if it is too easy na scam ojoro dey inside be that.๐Ÿ˜

    Whatever you are going through now is just a process; just as gold have to go through the refining stage in๐Ÿ”ฅ don't give up now! If you give up na you lose. No body go dash you money๐Ÿค‘ forever, so my beloved keep grinding! see you at the top good night ๐Ÿ˜˜

    The journey to success is not always smooth and easy, if it is too easy na scam ojoro dey inside be that.๐Ÿ˜Whatever you are going through now is just a process; just as gold have to go through the refining stage in๐Ÿ”ฅ don't give up now! If you give up na you lose. No body go dash you money๐Ÿค‘ forever, so my beloved keep grinding! see you at the top good night ๐Ÿ˜˜
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    Nigerian woman tearfully cUrs£s @rm£d r0bb£rs who inv@ded her parents’ home, r@p£d 17-year-old girl


    A Nigerian woman has tearfully cursed a group of @rm£d r0bb£rs who allegedly inv@ded her parents’ home, st0le valuables and money, and r@p£d a 17-year-old girl who was helping her mother.


    In an emotional video, the woman said the incident occurred at her parents’ home on Palace Road, where she alleged that three or four men inv@ded the house and st0le her mother’s properties and money.


    She also alleged that the men collected โ‚ฆ280,000 from the Point-of-Sale (POS) business of her late brother’s widow before allegedly @ss@ulting her.


    According to her, the men also r@p£d a 17-year-old girl who had been helping her mother. She claimed the girl had recently finished secondary school and was still bl££ding following the alleged incident.


    The woman alleged that the men spent about four hours in the house, arriving around 2am and leaving around 6am. She also claimed that they attempted to r@p her late brother’s widow and thr£atened members of her family.


    She said the incident had left her mother, her late brother’s widow and the children tr@umatised, adding that her mother had already endured significant hardship following the l0ss of a child to B0k0 H@r@m.


    The woman repeatedly cürแนฃ£d the alleged att@ckers and called on them to return the st0len belongings and apologise to the family. She also warned them against approaching her or her family.


    Credit: @anabelparadise100

    Nigerian woman tearfully cUrs£s @rm£d r0bb£rs who inv@ded her parents’ home, r@p£d 17-year-old girlA Nigerian woman has tearfully cursed a group of @rm£d r0bb£rs who allegedly inv@ded her parents’ home, st0le valuables and money, and r@p£d a 17-year-old girl who was helping her mother.In an emotional video, the woman said the incident occurred at her parents’ home on Palace Road, where she alleged that three or four men inv@ded the house and st0le her mother’s properties and money.She also alleged that the men collected โ‚ฆ280,000 from the Point-of-Sale (POS) business of her late brother’s widow before allegedly @ss@ulting her.According to her, the men also r@p£d a 17-year-old girl who had been helping her mother. She claimed the girl had recently finished secondary school and was still bl££ding following the alleged incident.The woman alleged that the men spent about four hours in the house, arriving around 2am and leaving around 6am. She also claimed that they attempted to r@p her late brother’s widow and thr£atened members of her family.She said the incident had left her mother, her late brother’s widow and the children tr@umatised, adding that her mother had already endured significant hardship following the l0ss of a child to B0k0 H@[email protected] woman repeatedly cürแนฃ£d the alleged att@ckers and called on them to return the st0len belongings and apologise to the family. She also warned them against approaching her or her family.Credit: @anabelparadise100
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    “They told me to go home” — Nigerian lady in UK says she was fired after making video about colleague being laid off


    A Nigerian lady based in the UK has shared an emotional video claiming she was fired from her job after creating content about a colleague who had been laid off.


    In the video, the woman was seen crying as she explained that she was told to go home after arriving at work.


    According to her, her manager told her that the video she made about her colleague losing his job had been sent to the company by the colleague.


    She claimed the colleague said the video caused him mental distress, prompting the company to terminate her employment.


    The woman said she only made the video to create awareness about what had happened and claimed she had received permission from her workplace before sharing it.


    She also denied suggestions that she made the video for financial gain on social media, saying she had never earned money from her social media content.


    Credit: @idelefamily

    “They told me to go home” — Nigerian lady in UK says she was fired after making video about colleague being laid offA Nigerian lady based in the UK has shared an emotional video claiming she was fired from her job after creating content about a colleague who had been laid off.In the video, the woman was seen crying as she explained that she was told to go home after arriving at work.According to her, her manager told her that the video she made about her colleague losing his job had been sent to the company by the colleague.She claimed the colleague said the video caused him mental distress, prompting the company to terminate her employment.The woman said she only made the video to create awareness about what had happened and claimed she had received permission from her workplace before sharing it.She also denied suggestions that she made the video for financial gain on social media, saying she had never earned money from her social media content.Credit: @idelefamily
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    Onitsha Pastor arraigned in court for allegedly promoting illicit wealth acquisition


    The General Overseer of Dayspring Assembly, Awada, Obosi, Harrison Anazodo, was today, September 28, arraigned before Justice Jude Obiora of the Anambra State High Court sitting in Awka on a seven-count charge bordering on allegedly propagating the accumulation of wealth through supernatural means, which was proscribed by the Anambra State Homeland Security Law 2025, as well as m#rder, abd#ction, and the unlawful separation and isolation of individuals from their families and keeping them in his residence.


    The clergyman was dragged before the court by the Anambra sate government following his arrest in June 2025.


    According to the court, the alleged offences were committed between year 2000 and 2025.


    The defendant who was brought to court from Chukwuemeka Odumegwu Ojukwu University Teaching Hospital, Awka, pleaded not guilty to all seven counts.


    Counsel to the defendant, W. O. Abonyi, thereafter, moved an application for bail.


    However, prosecution counsel, C. V. Ononye, objected to the application, arguing that the prosecution had not been sufficiently informed and had not been given adequate notice to respond.


    The court, while taking into consideration the health condition of the defendant, who had reportedly spent three weeks in the Intensive Care Unit of Chukwuemeka Odumegwu Ojukwu University Teaching Hospital, ordered that he be returned to the hospital.


    The court adjourned the matter to October 12, 2026, for the hearing of the bail application and further proceedings.

    Onitsha Pastor arraigned in court for allegedly promoting illicit wealth acquisitionThe General Overseer of Dayspring Assembly, Awada, Obosi, Harrison Anazodo, was today, September 28, arraigned before Justice Jude Obiora of the Anambra State High Court sitting in Awka on a seven-count charge bordering on allegedly propagating the accumulation of wealth through supernatural means, which was proscribed by the Anambra State Homeland Security Law 2025, as well as m#rder, abd#ction, and the unlawful separation and isolation of individuals from their families and keeping them in his residence.The clergyman was dragged before the court by the Anambra sate government following his arrest in June 2025.According to the court, the alleged offences were committed between year 2000 and 2025.The defendant who was brought to court from Chukwuemeka Odumegwu Ojukwu University Teaching Hospital, Awka, pleaded not guilty to all seven counts.Counsel to the defendant, W. O. Abonyi, thereafter, moved an application for bail.However, prosecution counsel, C. V. Ononye, objected to the application, arguing that the prosecution had not been sufficiently informed and had not been given adequate notice to respond.The court, while taking into consideration the health condition of the defendant, who had reportedly spent three weeks in the Intensive Care Unit of Chukwuemeka Odumegwu Ojukwu University Teaching Hospital, ordered that he be returned to the hospital.The court adjourned the matter to October 12, 2026, for the hearing of the bail application and further proceedings.
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    Here is my opinion about Dangote's shares

    Dangote's shares are over hyped. I'm seeing it everywhere. Shares has been there since but nobody heard of it or did it, it's not even popular

    Now, Dangote's company went public everyone is rushing to invest because they want to associate with Dangote.

    One of my parents told me to do transfer the other day through First bank. I open the app and behold, Dangote's share is at the top. They said I can invest in it right inside the app. Oh, wow. Just like that? They make it so smooth and seamless. I don't need to learn how to buy stocks or deposit in stock apps, just inside first bank app. This has never happened before

    Did Dangote run ads on First bank so that people can invest from there?

    Since Dangote's company went public I've not heard something. But stocks has been there since ooo.

    And for investing in stocks in general, wether Dangote's company or anyone, it is a long term investment. Don't hope it will make you rich, relying on it is a gamble.

    In America there is what people do. They have a job then each month they use a percentage of their salary to invest in stocks and hope that it will appreciate. They can wait for up to 10 years or more. That's very dangerous

    An author once said that the stock market is used to preserve wealth, not create it . If you have a huge amount of money, the dividends will pay you very well and if it appreciates, it will make you more wealthy. But if you're not putting a large amount of money, you're only hoping it will appreciate or increase in value which is dangerous.

    So, let's talk about Dangote. Why did he make his company public? What is his aim? Has he made any of his companies public before? Does he have good intentions for us? Or is he using the shares we bought in his favour?

    Well, Dangote is a good man. When we had fuel trouble 2 years ago, his company bailed us out and even last year, idk. So maybe he has good plans for us

    So finally to wrap this up, if someone is not earning good income, relying on stocks alone is very dangerous. The stock market is unpredictable. Nobody knows if the value will rise tomorrow, next week or in the next 10 years.

    Most people who invested in stocks only got profits decades later. Stocks is really slow. Idk if it's even slower than real estate. Which is faster?

    For me, if I invest in stocks I'll not rely on stocks, it's a long term plan. I'll just buy and forget it. I won't even be checking it, I'll go and work on other stuff to make money

    Buying stocks is like placing a bet on myself. Ok, I want to make a large amount of money. If I invest in stocks now and work on something else, in 10 years or the next few years, let me see which one will pay me a large amount of money

    And finally, so na for only first bank Dangote IPO de abi? I don't know for other banks. I can't access my first bank app. I open Opay to check for Dangote share I no see, ehn??? So Opay is too small abi? Dangote has made a huge mistake. Does he know how many people are using Opay and other mobile banks? He just lost and investor or other potential investors. If Opay had it, I could've invested too. So Opay is too small abi? No worry ๐Ÿค”

    Also, people that have Palmpay or other mobile banks, have you seen the shares?
    Here is my opinion about Dangote's shares Dangote's shares are over hyped. I'm seeing it everywhere. Shares has been there since but nobody heard of it or did it, it's not even popular Now, Dangote's company went public everyone is rushing to invest because they want to associate with Dangote. One of my parents told me to do transfer the other day through First bank. I open the app and behold, Dangote's share is at the top. They said I can invest in it right inside the app. Oh, wow. Just like that? They make it so smooth and seamless. I don't need to learn how to buy stocks or deposit in stock apps, just inside first bank app. This has never happened before Did Dangote run ads on First bank so that people can invest from there? Since Dangote's company went public I've not heard something. But stocks has been there since ooo. And for investing in stocks in general, wether Dangote's company or anyone, it is a long term investment. Don't hope it will make you rich, relying on it is a gamble. In America there is what people do. They have a job then each month they use a percentage of their salary to invest in stocks and hope that it will appreciate. They can wait for up to 10 years or more. That's very dangerous An author once said that the stock market is used to preserve wealth, not create it . If you have a huge amount of money, the dividends will pay you very well and if it appreciates, it will make you more wealthy. But if you're not putting a large amount of money, you're only hoping it will appreciate or increase in value which is dangerous. So, let's talk about Dangote. Why did he make his company public? What is his aim? Has he made any of his companies public before? Does he have good intentions for us? Or is he using the shares we bought in his favour? Well, Dangote is a good man. When we had fuel trouble 2 years ago, his company bailed us out and even last year, idk. So maybe he has good plans for us So finally to wrap this up, if someone is not earning good income, relying on stocks alone is very dangerous. The stock market is unpredictable. Nobody knows if the value will rise tomorrow, next week or in the next 10 years. Most people who invested in stocks only got profits decades later. Stocks is really slow. Idk if it's even slower than real estate. Which is faster? For me, if I invest in stocks I'll not rely on stocks, it's a long term plan. I'll just buy and forget it. I won't even be checking it, I'll go and work on other stuff to make money Buying stocks is like placing a bet on myself. Ok, I want to make a large amount of money. If I invest in stocks now and work on something else, in 10 years or the next few years, let me see which one will pay me a large amount of money And finally, so na for only first bank Dangote IPO de abi? I don't know for other banks. I can't access my first bank app. I open Opay to check for Dangote share I no see, ehn??? So Opay is too small abi? Dangote has made a huge mistake. Does he know how many people are using Opay and other mobile banks? He just lost and investor or other potential investors. If Opay had it, I could've invested too. So Opay is too small abi? No worry ๐Ÿค” Also, people that have Palmpay or other mobile banks, have you seen the shares?
    Ada @9jawap Ai be brutally honest does dangote IPO favour a poor man or low income person in Nigeria?
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    Shettima returns to Nigeria after representing Tinubu at UNGA 81 in New York.
    Shettima returns to Nigeria after representing Tinubu at UNGA 81 in New York.
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    35-year-old woman allegedly k!lls her co-wife with pestle in Bauchi


    The Bauchi State Police Command has arrested a 35-year-old woman, Hauwa’u Haruna for the alleged m8rder of her co-wife, Jamila Adamu.


    The spokesperson for the command, SP Nafiu Habib, who disclosed this in a statement on Monday, September 28, 2026 said the incident occurred during a domestic dispute at Tafawa Balewa Housing Estate on Sunday.


    According to the PPRO, Hauwa’u, allegedly acting under hallucinations, armed herself with a pestle and struck Jamila on the forehead.


    Upon receiving information about the domestic incident, detectives attached to the C-Division immediately mobilised to the scene.


    The victim was rushed to the Specialist Hospital, Bauchi, where she was certified d3ad by a medical doctor.


    Police arrested the suspect and recovered the pestle used in the commission of the offence.

    35-year-old woman allegedly k!lls her co-wife with pestle in Bauchi The Bauchi State Police Command has arrested a 35-year-old woman, Hauwa’u Haruna for the alleged m8rder of her co-wife, Jamila Adamu. The spokesperson for the command, SP Nafiu Habib, who disclosed this in a statement on Monday, September 28, 2026 said the incident occurred during a domestic dispute at Tafawa Balewa Housing Estate on Sunday.According to the PPRO, Hauwa’u, allegedly acting under hallucinations, armed herself with a pestle and struck Jamila on the forehead. Upon receiving information about the domestic incident, detectives attached to the C-Division immediately mobilised to the scene. The victim was rushed to the Specialist Hospital, Bauchi, where she was certified d3ad by a medical doctor. Police arrested the suspect and recovered the pestle used in the commission of the offence.
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    Police recover 28 human skulls and bones from Abia forest


    Twenty-eight human skulls and other human bones have been recovered from forests in the Isuochi and Nneato communities of Umunneochi Local Government Area of the state.


    The command’s spokesperson, Maureen Chinaka, disclosed this in a statement following a security operation conducted on Sunday, September 27, 2026.


    Chinaka said the operation involved the Violent Crime Response Unit, Anti-Kidnapping Unit, Anti-Cultism Unit, Intelligence Response Unit, Rapid Response Squad and Isuochi Police Headquarters.


    She mentioned that the operatives conducted intelligence-led raids on suspected criminal camps in forests around Umuaku, Isuochi, and another camp at Nneato, also in Isuochi. She said upon arrival of the Command tactical operatives at the camps, the suspects ran. The criminal camps were subsequently scattered,” Chinaka said.


    Chinaka said the remains were discovered while the operatives searched the suspected kidnappers’ camps.


    “Total of twenty-eight (28) human skulls and bones, which we suspect are kidnap victims, were recovered,” she said


    The police image maker said some of the remains were decomposed.


    She added that the command suspected the remains belonged to people who had been k!dnapped and taken into the forest, but said investigations were ongoing.


    Chinaka added that no arrest has been made in connection with the discovery as the suspects reportedly fled before the arrival of the police.

    Police recover 28 human skulls and bones from Abia forestTwenty-eight human skulls and other human bones have been recovered from forests in the Isuochi and Nneato communities of Umunneochi Local Government Area of the state.The command’s spokesperson, Maureen Chinaka, disclosed this in a statement following a security operation conducted on Sunday, September 27, 2026.Chinaka said the operation involved the Violent Crime Response Unit, Anti-Kidnapping Unit, Anti-Cultism Unit, Intelligence Response Unit, Rapid Response Squad and Isuochi Police Headquarters.She mentioned that the operatives conducted intelligence-led raids on suspected criminal camps in forests around Umuaku, Isuochi, and another camp at Nneato, also in Isuochi. She said upon arrival of the Command tactical operatives at the camps, the suspects ran. The criminal camps were subsequently scattered,” Chinaka said.Chinaka said the remains were discovered while the operatives searched the suspected kidnappers’ camps.“Total of twenty-eight (28) human skulls and bones, which we suspect are kidnap victims, were recovered,” she saidThe police image maker said some of the remains were decomposed.She added that the command suspected the remains belonged to people who had been k!dnapped and taken into the forest, but said investigations were ongoing.Chinaka added that no arrest has been made in connection with the discovery as the suspects reportedly fled before the arrival of the police.
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    “Nigeria needs to be fixed… from the gate till you board, everybody is begging you for money” — Nigerian man compares Lagos, Qatar airports


    A Nigerian man has criticised the state of Nigeria’s airport system while comparing his experience at a Nigerian airport with his experience at an airport in Qatar.


    In a video shared online, the man called for better pay for airport workers, alleging that passengers are frequently asked for money at different points of the airport process in Nigeria.


    “From the gate like this to the board airplane, everybody is begging you for money in Nigeria,” he said.


    He contrasted the experience with what he encountered in Qatar, where he said airport workers did not ask passengers for money and the process was more organised.


    The man also praised the cleanliness of the Qatar airport, particularly its toilets, describing the facility as exceptionally clean compared with what he had seen at Lagos airport.


    “Before we came here, I entered Nigeria's Lagos airport, the toilets,” he said, before expressing disappointment over the condition of the facilities.


    He called for improvements in Nigeria, saying better systems and working conditions would make the country a better place.


    Credit: @victorandrenee

    “Nigeria needs to be fixed… from the gate till you board, everybody is begging you for money” — Nigerian man compares Lagos, Qatar airportsA Nigerian man has criticised the state of Nigeria’s airport system while comparing his experience at a Nigerian airport with his experience at an airport in Qatar.In a video shared online, the man called for better pay for airport workers, alleging that passengers are frequently asked for money at different points of the airport process in Nigeria.“From the gate like this to the board airplane, everybody is begging you for money in Nigeria,” he said.He contrasted the experience with what he encountered in Qatar, where he said airport workers did not ask passengers for money and the process was more organised.The man also praised the cleanliness of the Qatar airport, particularly its toilets, describing the facility as exceptionally clean compared with what he had seen at Lagos airport.“Before we came here, I entered Nigeria's Lagos airport, the toilets,” he said, before expressing disappointment over the condition of the facilities.He called for improvements in Nigeria, saying better systems and working conditions would make the country a better place.Credit: @victorandrenee
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    “A man can sleep with 30–40 women and still marry a woman ready to settle down with him, but a woman can sleep with 7–10 men and be rejected” — Veteran actor Chiwetalu Agu


    Veteran Nollywood actor Chiwetalu Agu has spoken about what he described as a double standard in how men and women are judged over their sexual history.


    In a video shared online, Agu said a man could have sexual relationships with several women and still find a partner willing to settle down with him, while a woman with a smaller number of past partners could face rejection because of her history.


    “A man can sleep with 30 to 40 women and still end up with the woman who is ready to settle down with him. A woman can sleep with 7 to 10 men and end up being rejected simply because of her past,” he said.


    He argued that the social consequences of the same behaviour can differ depending on gender, adding that there may be little evidence of a man's past relationships while a woman's past could become a major issue.


    Agu also warned people against assuming that they would face the same consequences as others when making certain decisions, particularly when there is a difference in financial resources.


    Using drug use as an example, he said a wealthy person's child might have access to overseas treatment and rehabilitation if things went wrong, while someone without similar resources could struggle to recover from the consequences.


    “The behaviour is the same, but the resources available to deal with the consequences are different,” he said.


    He urged people to consider the potential consequences of their actions before making decisions, stressing that wisdom involves recognising what one cannot afford to do.

    “A man can sleep with 30–40 women and still marry a woman ready to settle down with him, but a woman can sleep with 7–10 men and be rejected” — Veteran actor Chiwetalu AguVeteran Nollywood actor Chiwetalu Agu has spoken about what he described as a double standard in how men and women are judged over their sexual history.In a video shared online, Agu said a man could have sexual relationships with several women and still find a partner willing to settle down with him, while a woman with a smaller number of past partners could face rejection because of her history.“A man can sleep with 30 to 40 women and still end up with the woman who is ready to settle down with him. A woman can sleep with 7 to 10 men and end up being rejected simply because of her past,” he said.He argued that the social consequences of the same behaviour can differ depending on gender, adding that there may be little evidence of a man's past relationships while a woman's past could become a major issue.Agu also warned people against assuming that they would face the same consequences as others when making certain decisions, particularly when there is a difference in financial resources.Using drug use as an example, he said a wealthy person's child might have access to overseas treatment and rehabilitation if things went wrong, while someone without similar resources could struggle to recover from the consequences.“The behaviour is the same, but the resources available to deal with the consequences are different,” he said.He urged people to consider the potential consequences of their actions before making decisions, stressing that wisdom involves recognising what one cannot afford to do.
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